As One Friend to Another

Speak to God as one friend speaks to another.
–Annotation 54, The Spiritual Exercises of Ignatius of Loyola

As one friend to another,
I gotta say,
I love that you call me your friend
and tell me I abide in God
the way you do.

I know, because we’ve been friends
since I was knit together in my mother’s womb,
you are true to your word:
you never leave or forsake me.
Your love is unconditional;
that means no “if” can undo it.

So, when I read that I’m your friend if I keep your commands
–even when those commands are summed up in loving God, others, and myself–
I gotta say, it isn’t true.
I’ve broken that commandment a zillion times,
and you never stopped being my friend.

When I read “If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love”
it sounds like you’re saying
if I don’t keep your commands, I won’t remain in your love.
That’s not true.
Wherever I go, you are there….
The Lost Sheep…
Romans 8…
Jacob at Luz…
The Runaway Bunny…

As one friend to another,
I gotta tell ya,
reading the Bible and listening deeply to hear what you meant
is a bit of work.

Thankfully, I’m not reading it alone.

I wonder what it would be like to read the Bible
without the fear of abandonment.

I walk with Jesus,
and he walks with me.
I rest with Jesus,
and he rests with me.
I speak to Jesus,

and he speaks to me,
as one friend to another. …


I laugh with Jesus,
and he laughs with me.
I hide from Jesus,
and he knows where I’ll be.
I see my Jesus,
his loving eyes see me,
as one friend to another
.
—One Friend to Another, Jon Guerra

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About Esther Hizsa

Esther is a writer, spiritual director, and cofacilitates contemplative retreats and courses. She lives in Vernon, B.C. with her husband, Fred.
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